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sheetal.01
Dec 27, 2021
In Relationships & Family
I am in r'ship with a married man since last 5 years. It started as a normal f'ship at workplace but we did not realise when we started liking each other and started seeing each other. He used to pamper me a lot and help me in times of need. He will go over the top to be there for me. I started liking him and spending time with him and relationship happened. After 1.5 yrs, he started spending less time with me. He will try to balance b/w me and his family but was finding it difficult . He does love me but expects me to adjust for him as he has to devote time to his kids and family. Initially I adjusted but his absence started becoming more frequent and I will just wait . It is an endless waiting room. Weeks turned into months just like that. He will be always available on WA but not in person. Once we met after 10 months' gap despite being in the same city . He started ghosting me. But when he comes back , he comes back with full excitement and love. But it is on WA and r'ship can't continue like this. We do not meet much. I am not able to get out of it and start afresh with someone else. Whenever I decide to leave , he is full of love and care and spends time but it is temporary. I never expected him to leave his wife and kids and never thought I will be the 2nd woman. I thot it is just a bit more than f'ship but ...
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