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emileemorley08
Dash
May 27

Can we connect one on one?

How do I convince my husband for not divorcing me?

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Expert_Nitin Tomar
May 27

Your are receiving this advice from Expert as you are the lucky one chosen for a free first advice by expert. Too often, divorce is put on the table long before a couple has exhausted all other alternatives. And sometimes people want to stay in a marriage that is ultimately unhealthy for them. Divorce will set in motion a series of painful events that will impact all involved— the couple as well as their children and family.

Though there’s no guarantee that taking a firm stand for your marriage will convince your divorce-bound spouse to change course, giving up is guaranteed to bring the divorce you don’t want. Your partner’s actions are beyond your control. So on the one thing you can control: yourself.

1- Stop trying to convince your partner to stay. Make your position clear and then quietly stick to it.

2- Take a look at how you’ve been behaving in your marriage. Clarify what your standards are for a good and satisfying marriage and start living up to them, even if your spouse isn’t doing the same.

3- If he won’t go to therapy, go on your own. See if you can find a therapist who will support you in looking at what’s gone on in your marriage without trying to convince you to accept your divorce as inevitable.

4- Avoid the well-meaning but possibly undermining advice from friends and family.

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