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BF & I have been tgthr for 3yrs.We Love each other but lately I have seen he gets friendly with other people way too much. I am an ambivrt & he is next level extro.It makes me insecure & worried.He says it's my problem to feel this way. What do I do?
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Mar 23
BF & I have been tgthr for 3yrs.We Love each other but lately I have seen he gets friendly with other people way too much.What to do ?
BF & I have been tgthr for 3yrs.We Love each other but lately I have seen he gets friendly with other people way too much.What to do ?
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Everyone has a personality of their own. As per the situation, that personality can be dominant or subdued. After 3 years of relationship , your boyfriend seems to be comfortable with you and seemingly wants to be himself. His personality of being extrovert is becoming dominant. If mixing with other people is the only indicator that is making you insecure , then you are basing your conclusion on too few parameters. He is being friendly with others in front of you , so he has no intent of hiding anything. Please look for other indicators which you see can be worrying .If you do not find anything , then drop this though right here and enjoy time with your boyfriend.
Yes, I have been there . Initially my boyfriend would spend all his time with me , wont even let me socialize with my girl friends . He wanted so much of me. It felt so nice . I did not know that he is a talkative extrovert. One year after the relationship started , he started going out with his friends . I felt weird because i was not meeting my friends but I let it go. I focused on other things . Then I realized he wants to be with more and more people and wants less of me now . I confronted , and he said he likes to be this way and that's how he has always been and said that I didn't see it . I was disturbed at this sudden change of behaviour and thought it was over .He is bored of me. But this phase was over after some time . We were together for another 2 years and then split up because of some other reason.
If it bothers you talk to your boyfriend about your problem. This can be resolved if both of you work towards it. You also will have to allow him to be himself. Otherwise he will feel controlled and might start resisting you. You have a certain personality and so does he. Accept eachother . Initial phase of a relationship is always special but it does not last long. Maturity has to set in.