I am a housewife , married for 6 years now . 2 miscarriages have shattered me . My family wants a child very badly to continue family lineage. My husband is the only child so I have to produce a child so that the vansh continues.
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Nov 29, 2020
2 miscarriages have shattered me . My family wants a child very badly to continue family lineage.
2 miscarriages have shattered me . My family wants a child very badly to continue family lineage.
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Society is there to support us but it ends up making our lives miserable more often than not.
I am also going through a family pressure but of different type. My own people have become so insensitive towards me , I can understand your pain.
Obsession of continuing the lineage. This is the sad stage of our society.
2 miscarriages saps a lot out of a women's body. You need to give time to your body to recuperate otherwise you will not be fit to bear a child. If your family is not aware of the risk , help them understand. Take doctors help in making them understand. If they force you in such a situation , they might lose the chance of becoming grand parents forever. This is not the time to succumb to the pressures of society rather take a wise decision of taking care of your health . You might have to put a foot down in front of your family but it is for the good of all in the long term. If you are not fit enough mentally and physically to raise a child , you will not do justice to the child and it may impact his upbringing and subsequently your relationship with him.
Miscarriages are draining both physically and emotionally. The confidence and zest for life goes for a toss. You must focus on yourself and tell your family that you are shattered and need to come out of this trauma first and need their support. Do not center your life on having a child for now. Focus on yourself. A happy mother makes a happy baby.