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Feb 07
· Edited: Feb 07I am skinny and have taken medical help to gain weight but nothing worked.I have zero confidence .
I am skinny and have taken medical help to gain weight but nothing worked.I have zero confidence .
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Mother is supportive but I feel father wants me to look better so that he can be proud of me. He is conscious of my skinny look.
Am skinny too. I can't wear even skinny jeans . They are loose and I look like a stick. I also have low self esteem. I avoid going to functions. I layer myself up to look normal.
My parents encourage me to look beyond my skinny looks and focus on other aspect of personality. I do that sometimes but a lot of time I see people looking at me in strange ways and I get conscious.
It's sad that our society places so much importance on looks. You should not care for such mean people.
A person's self confidence seldom comes from what people say but from what he thinks about himself. In case you have not embraced who you are , you will not have a reason to feel happy and will always be low on confidence. Every person is blessed with a body type and everybody is aware of this. You must learn to embrace and accept yourself happily . Sometimes we are more harsh on ourselves than others are. You took medical help and it did not give you the results you hoped for. It can be disheartening to not achieve the desired look. If you give too much emphasis to your looks others will sense it and start seeing you through the same lens. However, if you do not pay undue attention to and not be conscious of your looks , you will find that people also will not pay attention to that. So , be yourself. Move past looks and focus on your other aspects of your personality as well.
Bodyshaming has a deep impact on everyone . People who have not been body shamed are also scared of being the victim one day. As a result they become conscious of their looks even before anything happens to them. Do not be bogged down by the certain way you look like as people will also start treating you the same way. Be happy and wear your confidence on the sleeve and you will see you are much happier just the way you are.
It's a shame that today society focusses on the looks and doesn't care about the person , his talents , his relationships , his goodness.